Cheryl was the mother of three sons and a daughter.
Everyone Needs To Know This Story
This community just lost a very valuable member of this community to yet another act of extreme violence. This woman had seen hells gates once and lived to survive the story. Two or three years ago this woman exhibited her artwork at Reading Area Community College. It was an array of photographs and original art pieces done by Cheryl O’kafor. The exhibit was that of Cheryl’s recovery from the severe abuse she received from her first husband. She had survived multiple gunshot wounds and long recovery period both physically and then again mentally. This is what Cheryl’s artwork was about: the mental and emotional recovery. Cheryl healed herself.
She also went on to serve this community. She established and ran the organization called the Multicultural And Literacy Institute.
“This organization instills rites of passage in teen groups as a tool for reaffirming cultures, gaining self-knowledge, confidence-building, learning responsibility and teamwork. The journey of life is examined and exposed for its self-fulfillment needs. The institute is designed for both peer and adult mentoring. In addition this organization has its own show on BCTV and offers many fun events such as bowling and dances to its members”.
As an organization MALI participated in food drives for this community and was an avid supporter of other community groups such as African American Coalition of Reading and Berks Unity Solution. The MALI teens gave performances at local community events. Cheryl influenced this all.
But most the most beautiful thing about Cheryl was her ability to share.
I am the founder and director of an organization called Berks Unity Solution. I wanted to share something good with our community. When Cheryl and I met, I knew she was one of the most gracious people I have ever met. I needed information to do what I wanted to do for the community and Cheryl volunteered freely information which was a driving piece to Berks Unity Solutions success. She did that because it was the right thing to do, not because she would benefit in any other way than to help our community. She knew that the giving and sharing of information was the key to any positive endeavor. I have walked to paths of this community and it is a rare find for someone who gives without some sort of ego boosting, financial gain, or political agenda. People like Cheryl are blessing to a community who is very much in need of such spirit’s who walk in beauty. This is a sad, sad day to have lost Cheryl to yet another violent act. She had made it through the muck and the mile only to be murdered yesterday by her second husband, who then turned the gun on himself.
People it is bad out there. Our mission is to STOP the VIOLENCE and the pain it brings back into the community. It affects everyone with its ripple effect. We either pull together or we fall apart. It is a group decision. Lisa Kneer ~ Berks Unity Solution
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Community remembers Exeter resident Cheryl Okafor “She was very active in the community and wanted to make it a better place especially for children. It’s important for the community to pause, reflect and remember when a tragedy like this happens.”
